Well, it's amazing how time flies when you are having a ball. We have officially been married 2 months, 1 week and 5 days - and I'm soaking up each moment in this precious time! What I've been up to:
Cooking - Michael is a major eater which I love and anyone that knows me knows that I've just been waiting for someone to unleash all this cooking on. :) I've made casseroles, breads, sweets, pulled pork, enchiladas, granola, salads, you name it. Sometimes I find recipes that look good - and sometimes I just want to use one of my new kitchen gadgets like my mixer or processor so I head to the kitchen and play. My cousin gave me an awesome Southern Living Comfort Food cookbook as a wedding gift and it has been the source of many of my creations. We don't eat out much - maybe once a week for dinner so I do plenty of cooking throughout the week and weekend to keep plenty of leftovers for us.
It's definitely taking some getting used to planning my evenings around cooking dinner. I used to eat anything from a Lean Cuisine to a salad I threw together when I was single and I used my evenings to work out, shop, etc. Well now that hungry hungry hippo is waiting on me to eat dinner, I am having to work on rearranging my schedule a bit and working out in the morning and using my lunch time to run errands. I am still working that part out - trying to figure out the best plan that works for me but doesn't make me feel like a (grumpy) chicken with my head cut off.
Arranging & Organizing - After we got home from the honeymoon we had all our wedding gifts sitting in our guest room (wish I'd taken a picture of it!) so I spent the first month of our marriage sorting through the gifts, making exchanges/returns and then finding homes for all of it. It took a long time! I had to go through all the
closets and cabinets and sort through his/mine/new stuff. I'm glad that chore is
over with. There are still two closets
plaguing me that have stuff shoved in there out of sight but are far from organized - someday projects!
Decorating - I promise to get some pictures up soon of the guest room and our room. Both are close to done - but not quite. I did brown/lime green in our room and red/cream/black in the guest room (my same
toile bedspread that I've had a couple of years). I'm hoping to get an armchair for our room this weekend and then that room will be complete! The downstairs hasn't changed much - we are shopping for a new dining room table so I'll post pictures when we get one!
Visiting - We went to a wedding the first of August in San Antonio with Michael's parents. It was good to see them and fun to go our first "outing" as a married couple. I couldn't help beam from ear to ear when Mrs H introduced me as "her new daughter". :) Side note: I've been to SA a million times in my life but this was my first time to ever spend the night there - it was fun to play the tourist on the river walk!
This last weekend we went to
Brenham to visit my dad - we had fun on the lake and hanging out on the ranch. Makes me miss home - I don't always realize how city-
fied my life is till I visit down there and drive the tractor for dad. :)
Not Sleeping - Well I'm guess the adjustment to sleeping well with a bed buddy takes more than 2 months, 1 week and 5 days because I'm still not able to sleep through the night without waking up and realizing there is someone in my bed or having to elbow that someone to get them off my side! We also had two very different sleep schedules (Michael is an early riser since he gets up to run while I prefer to sleep as late as humanly possible before going to work). So this area is still a work in progress. It's been one of the only struggles we've faced - and I can't say I wasn't expecting it based on sleeping/waking alone for 28+ years!
Hosting - we are hosting our bible study group (which meets on Mondays) for the month of August so every Sunday night I'm giving the house a spruce and baking sweets. Last night I made homemade shortcake with peaches/strawberries and even whipped my own cream - and people just weren't hungry I guess because they didn't eat much at all. Sad day. The one department where Michael doesn't eat everything I can make as fast as I can make it is sweets - he just doesn't like them that much (I know, WHAT?!?) so I have to find other places to get rid of them. Anyone want to come over for some? :)
Working - you know that little thing I get paid to do 40 hours a week. It's been a struggle in itself as I adjust to my 4th boss in a little over a year that I've been there. We lost the director of the department just a couple of months after I started and had two "temporary" replacements and have finally hired the new one. It's been interesting (like how getting a root canal is interesting) adapting to her style and work habits. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I guess.
Changing my Name - aye karumba. People always told me what a pain it is to change your name when you get married. "Pain" is an understatement. I think I've finally got all but a couple of things done. For any of you girls out there getting engaged or married, I made a list as I went along of everything I had to change and I'll be happy to share it! From drivers license and social secruity to CPA stuff to banking to health insurance it all had to change!
Smiling - I have
hesitated to blog since we got married because I didn't want to come across as one of those sappy "my life is perfect"
bloggers. But, right now, my life is pretty close to perfect! Marriage has been even more of a blessing than I could have ever guessed. It's so fun to have your best friend around all the time. I also love the feeling of forever-
ness. It's very soothing. (for all of you that have been married many years and are gagging/
eyerolling or throwing something at your screen, I'm sorry - give me my honeymoon time!) :)
So that's my wordy (no pictures, sorry) update. I started this blog as a way to talk to the world while I lived in Germany, but now it serves as more of a diary of my thoughts and goings on - hopefully I can look back some day and smile when I think of these first two months of OUR big adventure!